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"Date to Win" goes global on EWTN!

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Our Recent Talk in NYC

We recently spoke on "Date to Win" in NYC to the New York chapter of the Goretti Group (yes, in honor of St. Maria Goretti)! Our audience were Catholic young adults who were dating and wanted to learn about our fun-focused, science-informed, modern dating model. Dating in NYC isn't easy! Watch the video where we break down the model in the most comprehensive presentation we've given yet.

Date to Win video series

Enjoy these videos, and join our email list (contact form below) for updates on our book. Or, contact us with questions. We'd love to hear from you!

Date to Win video series

This series of videos are still being created, but we're pausing to write our "Date to Win" book and to promote Chuck's dating model and our "Marriage Material" marriage-prep model! Enjoy these videos for now, and join our email list (contact form below) for updates on our book. Or, contact us with questions. We'd love to hear from you!

Date to Win video series

This series of videos are still being created, but we're pausing to write our "Date to Win" book and to promote Chuck's dating model and our "Marriage Material" marriage-prep model! Enjoy these videos for now, and join our email list (contact form below) for updates on our book. Or, contact us with questions. We'd love to hear from you!

Who are chuck and betsy?

samford bulldogs

Chuck and Betsy Stokes met at Samford University in Birmingham, Alabama as freshmen and married four years later, just two weeks after graduation. Betsy began her career in editing at Southern Living, while Chuck earned a Masters of Divinity from Beeson Divinity School at Samford.

UT Longhorns

Chuck pursued his PhD in sociology at the University of Texas at Austin, while Betsy pursued  freelance writing and editing, as well as their two new little ones. (Those little ones are now college students!)

Marriage Mentors, Friendship facilitators

In Austin, thanks to the Center for Relational Care (www.relationalcare.org), Chuck and Betsy learned the amazing skills of Intimacy Theory, a counseling approach developed by Dr. David Ferguson and Dr. Bruce Walker.

engaging the culture with science and reason

Today, Chuck is teaching at Samford (back to our beloved alma mater!) as a full professor of sociology, specializing in how family practices impact faith formation, the influence of popular media, and the formation (and failure or success) of romantic relationships. Betsy works as a senior copywriter for CanaVox, a secular, reason-based think tank that engages modern culture through social science, philosophy, and natural law.

Recent Accolades for the "Date to Win" Project

Our EWTN Debut! Featured guests on @Home with jim and joy

Our EWTN Debut! Featured guests on @Home with jim and joy

Our EWTN Debut! Featured guests on @Home with jim and joy

Our episodes played on EWTN on April 12th–15th, 2023. They are now available on YouTube. The episodes are linked at the top of this page, or click below!

Watch on EWTN's YouTube Channel

Featured at Institute for Family Studies

Our EWTN Debut! Featured guests on @Home with jim and joy

Our EWTN Debut! Featured guests on @Home with jim and joy

Our new dating model was featured on the blog of the Institute for Family Studies.

Read the article at ifstudies.org

Time-Bound Commitments featured in sociological volume

Our EWTN Debut! Featured guests on @Home with jim and joy

Time-Bound Commitments featured in sociological volume

Check out Chuck's chapter on "Emerging Adult Sexuality and Discipleship," where he introduces time-bound commitments, a core innovation of his new dating model.

See the Book at ChristianBook.com

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